Jaw - I hope my post was not a rant to you about bringing up R stuff. I will tell you that after an hour and 20 minute conversation with W yesterday evening, about 5D stuff, parents, plans in the upcoming month, work, blah blah, I told a story about 5D and I catching fireflies and how I learned that you have to thank God for not only the big things but the little things in life. W said, "I am happy for you. But it bothers me you are still wearing your ring. You need to let it go." In the past, I would've started with why, I don't understand, you never given a reason, never tried, said a month and then waited a week, deprived me of 5D for a month, some other R topic, etc... but last night I said, "I am sorry to hear that. Ummmm...I did not call to talk about us. I called to see if 5D did blank and to talk with her." and then continued with a 5D discipline issue and to do what is best for her. Then said, I need to go cell phone ringing again. She said ok. Point is it was a 180 to not go into it. Nothing good would come from saying anything about the ring, R, M, whatever. Now, of course, I have no idea if I should take it off to validate her or continue wearing for the personal reasons we all keep it on for.
Just wanted to tell you that story from my personal experience of late. Hopefully, it does something for you.
