I thought I'd use this name for a bit, just for kicks.
Anyway, my new question of the day: How do they do it?
I'm talking about the LBS that accepts their spouse blatantly having an affair and the WAS that blatantly cheats; I'm talking 2-3 nights per week staying over at the OM/OWs house and letting you know it. How could anyone do that to another person. I'm sure some would answer, "because they are selfish", but is it just that? To me it's one of the cruelest things you could do to someone, and this is someone you once supposedly loved.
And the LBS, how do you go on accepting that? How can you know that your spouse is letting someone else touch him/her, the way you used to touch? I understand that affairs happen. But what I can't understand is how to want my spouse so bad that I'm willing to just wait in the wings while the affair continues, hoping for it to end. It's one of the worst kinds of disrespect. If you are going to continue cheating, then get the divorce papers rolling. The worst kind of cheater is the one that bounces back and forth. Where does your self-esteem have to be in order to feel like you deserve that kind of treatment. Personally, I'd rather be beaten repeatedly by my spouse that have them flagrantly flaunt the affair in my face. Just my thought for the day.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
