Hi Lovnlrn! I am also a military wife...well, I guess I WAS, H got out of the Air Force in January. We went through 2 deployments, one of which was 8 months and really tough for him. I believe he went through an early MLC...although the timeline has been a little short compared to others.
Anyway, this is a great place to vent and also to journal your thoughts. Friendship is a great place to start, and it seems that worked for you before. No R talk, and I would say little contact right now. Let him contact you unless there is something going on with the kids.
I know it must be hard with 4 kids...but what kind of things are you doing for yourself?
