Originally Posted By: neecy22
Originally Posted By: Starshyne

He has a pay as you go phone, so I can't get access to phone records. I sure would like to.



Are you certain? I first discovered my husbands A by the 200 calls he made on his cell in December, I confronted him and he promised never to contact her again. A few days later I remembered we used to have a pay as you go phone. I called the number and it rang 4 times before going to voicemail. I went to the website for the phone for me it was rogers.com, and tehre is a manage your account section - you can add time there too. Because he had never registered the phone I was able to do it - i needed the phone number and my home address. I was then able to view usage and see that that morning there had been 4 texts to the OW.



thanks for the tip. It was worth a shot. When I went to the webpage of his phone it says "Enter your phone number and a password will be sent to your phone." Darn!

Last night I was talking to H about his day at work. He had one of his quarterly meetings (and OW might have been there, but over 100 people are there and typically she never showed up for them before). So his schedule was all thrown off. He was complaining that because of this meeting he has to make up his clients on Saturday. I know this isn't a lie because that is how it always is during these meetings. Anyhow...I said "Oh that is too bad. I was hoping we could do something together on Saturday." To this he said, "Well we maybe when I am done with work..." \:\) He also touched my arm and I swear I felt electric shock go through my body.

I have more to say, but I am late for work..eek!


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08