M - I'm interested in your last response. Is snooping not one of thos things we shouldn't be doing ?

I posted re a comment by GL on another thread just now re how you are supposed to find out exactly where you are and whats going on if the only way is to go against everything that this forum and DR preaches. It's very confusing.

Like you, people keep saying my W is having an A, which I think is impossible so far. She may have had a One Night Stand, she may have had a couple, or she may be having a textual affair, but I'm pretty certain no serious R with OM (as yet).