you could always box it up for him neatly and leave it out of the bedroom. its not a sign you dont want him, its a sign you you support him what ever decsion he makes. put a christian ILY card in it.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest