Unleash the 2x4's and Let the Beatings Begin

[ernest88]

I'm at home with my daughter on my birthday because my W had late work meetings in another city

M, I have been following your thread. I am going to tell you the same thing I told Ping tonight. The above quote is a red flag.
The way your wife is rushing toward divorce and her anger are red flags of another man in the picture. When a spouse is having an affair "late meetings" is a typical excuse. Taking down your pictures at her work office.

When you add up all of these little "coincidences" and changes in her attitude toward you, along with the anger, it points to another man being in the picture. This could be why you think you are spinning your wheels. You are so consumed with guilt that you are having a hard time seeing things clearly. She has you questioning yourself, which is a typical maneuver for a WS.

Don't brush this off. You also need to get to the bottom of what is going on here. Do you know what the number one reason is that a woman rushes a divorce? Do your homework here. You need to do what is necessary to find out without a shadow of a doubt if there is another person in the picture. The percentages are too high for you to brush this off. I haven't seen anywhere on your threads that you have looked SERIOUSLY at this possibility. They almost always hide it well in the beginning and it is even easier when the BS helps them to hide it by being naive.

Hope you don't get offended, but her behavior is pointing toward that definite possibility. I think you need to pursue this deeper to eliminate all obstacles or to be aware of them.

Good luck and stay observant.

I've looked. My computer tells me where she's been when she's online. Nothing in emails-work or private. Nothing on her cell bill or phone. If she's hiding it she's good a it. I have been very aware from the beginning and have watched what is going on. I am watching. I do not take offense. You post what you think. I appreciate all suggestions. Thanks GL..

I also know for sure that she was at a work meeting the night I made that quote. Like I told someone earlier...this is not my first rodeo.