Ping~ I left for many different reasons. My H and I really just stopped communicating first and foremost. He had accused me in early 06 of having an A, and i assure I was not, my H was a huge party boy, put a lot of friends before our R/M, which hurt a ton. Example, I would have dinner fixed for us, and he would come home and say, I am going to so and so's to work on the 4 wheelers and drink beer, be home later...that got old real quick!! We also struggled over finances, time and time again, I had inherited some money when my parents past away, which he was always hostile about, finally in Oct 06, I found out that he had gotten a ride to another party with an ex, and then found several texts and phone calls between the two of them...that kind of put the icing on the cake...I left in Jan 07.
Long story short...I left out of pure frustration. Neither of us were having affairs, neither of us were abusive, it's kind of like Michelle's said in the books, we stopped spending time together, communication break down, things that could really be fixed...if/ when he's ready! I truly feel I have learned soooo much not only about myself during this"break" from each other, but about where I went wrong in the R/M. So, now it's just a waiting game! That's the sucky part
Any other questions, just ask....I don't mind at all, if can help somebody else out, I am all for it!!
Hope it helps!! How are things your way??? I hope well, last time I checked your thread, you were doing awesome!! good for you:)
take care, Christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
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