My H came by the house today when I was at work and he broke another boundary of mine. I have told him in the past that if he wants to come to see the dog that he needs to leave me a note so I dont freak out that someone was in my house. He didn't leave a note, but he did take his mail, so I know he was here. This is not the first time that he has broken this boundary. I dont know whether to confront him or to let it slide since I know it was him here and not some stranger due to him taking his mail. What should I do? Right now, I will do nothing.
No need to confront him or let it slide.
Show 'TOUGH LOVE' with actions not words!!
CHANGE THE LOCKS.
Don't say a word. He will find out soon enough when he tries to sneak in.
If he can’t respect your boundaries voluntarily then force him to.
ACT don't REACT.
Nutty
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
