Please help me! Wife wants out! (5)

[steve477]

Thanks Rob

It helps the way other people put things, I am sure you know.

Just a quick ramble before work.

W was a bit down last night. Tough timeat work, her boss is being a bit mean. Saying about how it would be easy to find a replacement for W when she goes on Maternity leave. W beleives in karma (of a kind). She thinks that what goes around comes around and her boss will get some of her meaness back at her later. W does seem to think that she has dome anything bad and this is her karma. In her mind it seems that being with this OM is not a bad thing, it is something that must have happened for a reason. Annoys me a bit.

W is wanting (at this moment) to go back to the same job after maternity leave. She says that since she started this job, and helpiung people like she is, she has kind of found the meaning of her life. People appreciate her. I told her that I appreciate her, but she thinks it is different. I told her that I know her feelings about going back there, and she knows mine. There is no point to talk about this no, as thing may well be different by the time we get there.
I know people have told me not to have any pre expectations for how the R will work out. But I dont think I am out of line to expect her to not go back to the same office as the OM, IF she wants the M to work out.

OM2 bought some baby clothes. W didnt want to show me as she thought it would upset me. I think I handled it well. W knows that it is one thing for OM to be innappropriatly interested in her, but it is worse for OM to be inapproriately interested in my baby. W admits that it might be a bit too much. Apparently OM2 refers to himeself as `Uncle`. I said that I want to speak to him. W said she will handle it if it needs handling.

Thats about it.

W going out for works party tonight if she is feeling well enough. I will go out to the cinema I think.

Cheers

Steve

OH BY THE WAY..................... ITS A GIRL!!!!!