Sounds like your H had an itch - why should you scratch it - might leave you with a bigger 'itch' to deal with!!!

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength