Mink, you guys are just working out your situation, whatever that is. While it may not be going just how you want it to be, I think you are both being real, honest and patient. That's going to make both of you happier and healthy later in life, hopefully together.
Sometime last month my husband said something about this whole putting life on hold thing stinks. I responded that nothing's on hold, this is just life.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09