One thing I find helpful that I've done off and on for our years together (but obviously, not often enough) is to mentally step outside of my role of wife/lover and look at him from the vantage point of best friend. Friendship is what started our relationship so I try to view him as a friend would. Helps me a lot.
That is great advice for yourself and definitely a great place to start.
Sleep well.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
