Don't have much time to post as my H is here (in the shower at the moment), but I wanted to suggest that if you try PT, start out slow. A light touch on his arm/hand, a hug hello and/or goodnight.

Most importantly, do what feels right for YOU. If you're not sure, don't do it. Go with your gut.

Have a great time tomorrow! \:\)

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell