Why am I still empty feeling? Why do I still feel like the hugs are ok, but the kisses are fake (on my side)? Why do I still feel like something is missing? Why do I still have no desire to be with him sexually? Why do I feel angry and sad at the same time? Why can't I be happy? Why can't I get the feelings for this man that is being so wonderful? I need some ideas on how to start "feeling" for my husband.
I read a lot of R books and I don't know what exactly to say, but from what I have read and seen on this site, it takes time, don't expect it to happen overnight (especially if you just left OM) - your H is lucky he has a chance to get you back
You need to start building memories together. What you said, is almost exactly what my W said to me, except she is not looking to reconcile. You have a unique opportunity that we are all looking for.
Build memories together, enjoy doing the things you both like and celebrate the things you don't have in common. It takes all types and it would be boring if you were both exactly the same. But for the most part, give it time, take it slow, enjoy life and each other, God bless you both, best wishes
I'm trying to stay happy as my heart gets ripped out. Looking for love and affection (getting little or none). Trying to fight off the blues.
M45 W41 M10 years D9, D6, D6, S5 2 Dogs and 1 Cat OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me PA confirmed 03/08 and still going
