Peace, I asked my H last night if he was in a hormonal crisis. His response was "I don't know anything about hormonal crises." He's torn, but hopefully closer to me than 1 year ago. It seems that his words don't match his actions, either. Like Michele says, don't listen to what they say but pay attention to their actions.
I told him last night that if he ever wanted to talk about anything at all, I would be there for him. I told him he was welcome to join me for Church anytime and that our Church offered an online sermon service.
I know our R talk covered alot of food for thought. I am praying that he thinks and processes all we talked about.