Anyone like me?

[sandycay]

I agree with puppy on this one. What's more important to you.....your husband knowing your serious about no contact or the way you "look" to other family members. You should really, really be worried about how your husband sees this and not how you will feel if other people find out. That's NOT the important thing here. YOu should care about your husbands feelings and not yours, OM, or family members.

I hope you find happiness in your husband who truly loves you and wants to be with you. Hopefully, you will never have to walk in his shoes.