No Mike, I don't know your C, just thought that would be a great idea for you. I am sorry your W didn't show up but it is very good that she did at least apologize for not coming. Keep that same mind set for next week, I believe that is your best shot to set the standard right now with her, she will not expect it at all.
As far as your W searching your computer, she very well may be checking to see what you are up to for that time you spend typing. I doubt she is looking for anything that she could use against you unless you have giving her this reason in the past. My guess she is checking to see what you are up to with your time typing away, to me that shows she's curious of your actions. Bet you didn't think that did you? If she is looking and there has not been reason in the past for her try to get something on you for computer time, she is probably checking to see what you are up to. You have told her of the changes you are making, she may be curios to see where these changes are coming from. JMHO.
Stay positive, it makes things go so much better, I can tell the last two days you are more at ease. Keep it up.
