I thought I was good at ego stroking, until I read the 5 love languages (after coming to this board). Now if I wonder if I needed to "stroke" in the other person's love language...
Just a thought.
Have you had any success? Is there a difference between love language and flirt language?
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Glad you are enjoying your pursuit of imperfection. It has always been a huge cross for me as well. A superb book is the Spirituality of IMperfection, if you have any free time! As an aside, it is hysterical to me that XH has married a woman who is clearly 10 times the perfectionist that I am/was. I'm gonna just sit back and see how that works for him!
I think I really need to read that book.
If XH has married a super-perfectionist and she imposes that on him - well you have no reason to stick pins in a voodoo doll - sounds like he has stuck pins in his own voodoo doll!
I actually need someone that balances my perfection curse in an R by giving me a safe place to fail and knows how to let it go if I drop the ball sometimes...
