She will be calling to check in on them both Friday and Saturday night.
Ping. This is a BIG RED FLAG. I don't want to burst your bubble, but I do want you to be observant.
How many women do you know that go to the beach with their mother for a Friday and Saturday night? If you have been reading much on this site, you should be aware of how often the WS seems to "go away" for the weekend to see their "parents, long lost friends, a relative, girls weekend... etc..
I encourage you to do some "snooping" (secretly) to get to the bottom of this. It is extremely important to know what you are up against when your marriage is hanging by a thread. Most times women do NOT leave a man or a marriage unless there is another man in the picture. Do not say anything to your wife at this point. I have seen this type of thing happen again and again and again. There is almost always another man in the picture.
I realize that you don't think that there is. You could be wrong. Your wife has pulled away emotionally from you for a reason. I think you need to find a way to make sure that what she says she is doing, is actually what she really IS doing this weekend. Parents and friends are usually the first "cover" they use.
I am sorry to say this to you, but I hope you want my honesty as well as my encouragement when helping you. It wouldn't be fair to you if I let this pass without being brutally honest with my thoughts and suspicions with your situation.
Excellent job on assuring her that the boys are perfectly fine with you for the weekend. This is good and should be standard procedure for you from this point forward.
