PH
Your H sounds like so many of the mlcers here
he seems to be torn
cant come back b/c they are so focused on everything that was bad
thet lack the capacity to visualize a better M like we do
but they also cant seem to move on either they are stuck in limbo
one foot in, one out
so your H isnt really done with his crises and needs time
be supportive, but focus back on yourself
he has to figure it out on his own
pray and let go
I think these R talks are useful now and again
It helps us realize they are still cooking and lets them know, we are still standing
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow