PH Your H sounds like so many of the mlcers here he seems to be torn cant come back b/c they are so focused on everything that was bad thet lack the capacity to visualize a better M like we do but they also cant seem to move on either they are stuck in limbo one foot in, one out so your H isnt really done with his crises and needs time be supportive, but focus back on yourself he has to figure it out on his own pray and let go I think these R talks are useful now and again It helps us realize they are still cooking and lets them know, we are still standing peace
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