Snooping

[peacetoday]

CK
I was just wondering after reading your post again and your reply
what makes you think that WAS is considering return when they are in Limbo and not progressing toward D
I ask this b/c it seems many MLCers are in this position
they dont want to come back and many wont file for D either unless OW/OM is pushing for D
some do file, but eventually seems like the mlcer/WAS will file although it seems to take some years
Its hard for me to read my WAS/MLCER
although he visits frequently and wants to see kids, he also frequently seeks me out to talk ..sometimes he calls
we have some very conversations and interactions in fact, our R is much better now than while M..I have learned to allow him to be who he is and accpt him..he likes this one foot in each world
He keeps his OW out of picture and I really dont know what he is doing/where he is living or how serious any R may be.
My kids have never met anyone..My kids sleep here only
next week we are going to talk..I asked him for this talk b.c I need him to let me know what he is thinking and if he is in the same spot as before..I assume he still is
peace