GF has it right.

"I" statements and no blame. But tell it like it is.

"I would appreciate it if you would let me know you are going to be out past 10 pm so that I don't worry" (if he gets defensive, say that you are hurt, in an accident, don't make it just about a possible OW)

"I would like to spend more time together on the weekends."

"I would like it if you would take me with you on some of your shopping trips so we can do things together."

That kind of stuff.


Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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