Well I am the one that made up his email address and password to begin with, but he rarely if ever uses the internet so him giving me that isn't an issue.

He has a pay as you go phone, so I can't get access to phone records. I sure would like to.

Maybe saying to him that I would like to spend more time with him on the weekends would be a start. Maybe saying something about going to the zoo or art museum and see how he takes it. You are right, I need to figure out exactly what is bugging me. I think the staying out past 10pm is an issue. I don't want him to feel like I am giving him a cerfew, but if he is going to be out past 10, I would like to know it.

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08