SF, I have to agree with ACJ on this one. He's in a hole right now and w/that time in the hole, comes time to process everything. He needs this time to face his demons.
SF, give him plenty of time and space. He's still baking. Do not worry, he will be in touch again very soon.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
