Still trying to be patient

[mcojh]

DBing isn't the be all end all for some one in this sitch (I should be getting banned for saying this). You still need to do what is right for you. Only you know your sitch and only you can decide when you are ready to file. If you are ready, then file. That doesn't mean anything. The key is, are you ready to pull the pin. My CW filed. That was fine with me. Honestly, if she still hadn't filed, I would have by now. I am glad she did because the $250 filing fee came out of her pocket.

K43-IMHO, you need to look deep down inside yourself and ask yourself if your H has crossed the line? Has he gone too far? Are you willing to wait to see if he has made up his mind? Are you ready to file and follow through? Once you answer these, your course of action may be clearer.