I have tried the pursuit and had it completely back fire on me. Maybe that's why it is such a no no. Nope, just more acts of kindness, try to be friends again, and having her realize what a great dad I really am. No pushing from me. No snooping. I went dark for a while, and while it had her guessing, it did not help our R, I feel.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."