Did I tell you girls about the hot dogs conversation I had with my H a few weeks ago?

H used to eat hot dogs for lunch all of the time. So I bought some. He declares in a tone like I was stupid for buying them, "I don't like hot dogs!" What? For 7 years, you would eat one now and then. Yeah, not your favorite food, but never something you "didn't like." Suddenly it hit me that I was hot dogs. On some whim he decided that he didn't like me anymore after liking me just fine for 7 years. I remember crying to him "You think of me like hot dogs" which he didn't understand. But guess what.....all of those hot dogs are now gone and I sure didn't eat any of them. That gave me some hope.

My husband changes his mind about the things he likes all of the time. He hasn't held onto a job for very long because he gets tired of one or it isn't what he thought it would be (his current job he has had now for 9 months, which is a record!), music, movies, etc etc. I don't know why I didn't think that I could fit into his fickleness as well, but obviously I can.

That is why I am so scared that he is with yet another OW. I am not sure what our husband can do or say to show us that they will stay with us and not flutter off to something else.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08