I think she's back

[MichelleLT]

I'm so sorry to hear you are sick. Take care of yourself. I hope you feel better soon.

If there were 3-5 things that are different about the weekend that make you feel there might be an OW, what are they? I think until you can really figure out what is bugging you, you can't figure out how to address it. It may be as simple as saying, I would like to spend more time with you on the weekends or something.

Transparency is him being willing to answer your questions and share his whereabouts and his e-mail and phone records, and reassure you that there isn't anyone else. There is still an element of uncertainty to it because you DON'T know for sure that he is at the library the whole time - however, that is your problem to deal with as there is absolutely nothing he can say to convince you it is true. You do have to take his word for it a little bit and see if he seems to be telling the truth. The other necessary element is time - it will take time for your worries to subside and for him to earn back your trust.