It does suck, Phoenix! There is no getting away from it. But, please, be humbly proud of yourself, 'cause you did all and more than you could to save your M and tried so hard to prevent the break-up of your family. This is no longer in your control (it never was really) anymore ... it's out of your hands and in God's and your wife's. Let them fight it out. And, you know who will win in the end.
Do you know why, at this time, your W has decided to go ahead with the D? Is there someone else ... again!?
Take care of yourself, and know that we are here for you to vent as much as you want. Thinking of ya!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
But, please, be humbly proud of yourself, 'cause you did all and more than you could to save your M and tried so hard to prevent the break-up of your family. This is no longer in your control (it never was really) anymore ... it's out of your hands and in God's and your wife's. Let them fight it out. And, you know who will win in the end.
Thinking of ya!
