I think we are in a rut

[MichelleLT]

I also think this is how OW hooked him...WOA overload. He felt it was more sincere from her than me...even said I did it because I HAVE to. Not true. So how do I let him know I am sincere?

Damn good question. For some reason, my H also doesn't always seem to think I'm sincere and I am at a loss as to whether it is because of how I say it or how he perceives it. I used to be very free with my compliments to him, but as the years passed I didn't give as many spontaneous compliments. This is something I have to work on, but I really need to make sure he believes I am sincere, and I am at a loss how to do that.

I think it has to sound natural, and be combined with a smile, eye contact, open body language. Other than that...I'm at a loss unfortunately.