Missmyfriend, As long as you know that now, then you should be at peace. You most likely treated her just like all the rest of us feel like we treated our S - that is with great love and respect. We just cant help that they are in a MLC -it is their journey.
My friends told me for the entire year before my H left me that he was out of his mind and he was treating me badly, my older brother even got into a fist fight with my H cause he told my H that he was treating me and everyone like crap. Then 3 months later he left me.
I guess I am glad that everyone else I know also knows that my H just snapped one day and turned into an angry a-hole that treated me very badly. They can see what I went through during his denial and anger stages. And now all my friends are here for me through out his replay and unfortunately they all hate my H right now due to the way he left me (he sold our house a week before he left and then only left me a dear john letter when he moved out and would not tell me where he was for 3 weeks until I found him), and due to the fact that he has come back to me twice only to leave again for no particular reasons.
I dont know what I would do with out my friends, they are great. TIPPER
