Thanks GF. I am not sure if H is willing to read the book, but I'll see. He is usually very open about things...but he is having a hard time opening up about the affair....guilt maybe? I think he is starting to realize that I need to talk about it to work through my feelings. I don't need the gory details...just more of how it happened, how it ended, and how we can keep it from happening again.
My mother has "After the Affair" and she said it was very good. I may read that next...or maybe not. I don't want to obsess about it...just learn how to let go.
