Nutty, hey thanks for the response. I also journal alot and it does help, but I feel like I am still just so sad all the time and I have become so queit and distant in other relationships when I used to be so happy and upbeat around others. I try hard to not let this MLC influence me in my daily life, but no matter what it is all I think about.
I have lost the love of my life and there is nothing that can help me stop mourning this. I have tried everything from counceling, journaling, GAL, acting as if, ect... and no matter what I feel like I am going to just be profoundly sad for the rest of my life. I know that time changes things and thoughts and feelings, but I have been going through this for a year and a few months already and I still feel as sad as I did when I got the bomb dropped the first time.
My H came by the house today when I was at work and he broke another boundary of mine. I have told him in the past that if he wants to come to see the dog that he needs to leave me a note so I dont freak out that someone was in my house. He didn't leave a note, but he did take his mail, so I know he was here. This is not the first time that he has broken this boundary. I dont know whether to confront him or to let it slide since I know it was him here and not some stranger due to him taking his mail. What should I do? Right now, I will do nothing.
What tempted you to file. Are you expecting him to rethink things or are you just competely done with him?
