The thing is Lin that this isn't just something that happened a few times and trailed off - this is something that is STILL happening after all this time.

I agree with Bworl and BFM. Unless Patti does something about this he has no reason to change what he is doing. IMO he is not being a NICE guy he is being a complete bast*rd.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength