I'm in a funk today! Not my usual happy self. I need to do something fun today!!! I'm just getting tired of the marriage limbo I've been in for 5 months now. And it looks to me like most other spouses on the board here kind of waver and have moments where they feel they are interested in the marriage, but my H doesn't seem to have any of those moments or feelings. He made the one comment several weeks ago that he was under stress at the time he started the affair b/c of being in a play which made things seem worse than they really are, but other than that, nothing. I just feel like I'm not making any progress in our R, and it's frustrating me today!!! Karen