I have pretty much stopped working on my marriage. My kids are number one. I take very good care of me. I don't drink, smoke, cheat and all of my extra time is spent with my kids. I am creating tremendous space between her and I. I have a tremendous support group that only gets the truth about my situation. Someone just asked me why she was so angry and below is my answer:
Where is all of her anger coming from? Just your situation? Nothing else going on in her life right now?
Anger: It is part of her personality. She is always angry. What is escalating the anger? It could be many things:
1) Her decision and her knowing it is wrong because of the advice she is getting is skewed
2) She has made a decision to ripe apart our family and now has to live with it.
3) The kids hate her and want nothing to do with her. (take a f---ing hint)
4) I am standing in the way of her being fun Sally.
5) I am standing in the way of her dating OM?
6) I am way more stable through this whole thing then she is.
7) My kids love my ass.
8) Her VERY comfortable life is going to change very soon, very much.
9) She still loves me but has started this process and will not turn back because it will make her the fool and make her the liar.
