this sounds so awful, but I was married before and we didn't have children. I was SO in love with him (I actually never felt for current h the way I felt for former h), and when he left me I thought I would DIE!! But we didn't have kids, so when it ended --i LITERALLY never saw him again. it was actually easier that way!!
But with current h, we have Isabella (5) and I CANNOT imagine how this will go! How do you get over someone when you HAVE to be in their lives for eternity???? I just got dressed, by the way, and look fanf'ingtastic. I really do (the db diet works great, right)? the house is clean, but not psyhco-clean. Besides, I work from home and actually have work to do. He has taken all his stuff already so Idon't have to deal with that. I just don't understand the POINT in coming over so early!
If he wants to spend time with Isabella, than, wonderful, but she won't be out of school then!
Also, I have to bring up the subject about this weekend. This is our first weekend that she will be with him "away". I had offered to drive her to his office (he's staying an hour away from home, near his office), but then I got to thinking, why should I have to do that? the reason I brought it up was he was making comments about how he doesn't want to drive all the way back here to get her on Friday nights. Then that would mean I only have ONE night to myself and he has SIX!! it's not that I don't love my duaghter but I need 2 nights to myself if I have her all week alone. AND I'm not comfortable with ow in the picture at all. he's not living with her, but I know she lives in the area. what should I do?
