A guys position on the whole ML thing. First, I hate that term. You can't make love. You can be in love and have sex to express feelings or show love, or you can have sex... but you can't make love. He wanted sex. He wanted the physical feelings associated with sex. For guys, the act is physical. It is more about the 2 1/2 hours of pure pleasure (lol) and less about the emotional connection.
I don't have vast knowledge of a women's feeling on the subject (more like half vast) but I am willing to say that if you did it to re-connect with him, it wouldn't work. Bottom line is, you did the right thing.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
