Lodo, you have done well. It is so easy to have things go ugly. I am trying to keep things peaceful, friendly, and at least civil, because of my hope to have my marriage restored. I have told her that we won't be friends if she maintains and ends our marriage because of OM, but I feel like I am not holding onto my boundaries. I feel like I am saying one thing, but doing another.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."