Wow, you are where I was in February. And now actually. lol When H is here, it feels...crowded...claustrophobic almost. You will be fine. I would like to add another quote that I use when H lists all my faults... "I can see how you would see it that way....that must have been hard to feel like that." Amazing, how there is really no room for our troubles, our complaints...But if there is reconciliation, I suppose that is the time to tackle everything.