Originally Posted By: almosthopeful So.......sigh, superdad, will you marry me??? LOL.
It depends...are you good at ego-stroking?
WOW - I flirted by proxy! AH actually was the one that proposed. I need her to be my Cyrano de Bergerac.
Now onto the art of ego-stroking - that is dating 101 right? AH help? How do I do that? LOL!!!
Hey AG,
I'm actually gonna address that very last question seriously, 'cause I had a little light bulb moment...
I thought I was good at ego stroking, until I read the 5 love languages (after coming to this board). Now if I wonder if I needed to "stroke" in the other person's love language...
Just a thought.
Glad you are enjoying your pursuit of imperfection. It has always been a huge cross for me as well. A superb book is the Spirituality of IMperfection, if you have any free time! As an aside, it is hysterical to me that XH has married a woman who is clearly 10 times the perfectionist that I am/was. I'm gonna just sit back and see how that works for him!
