But she is not working on our marriage is what i mean. .
BT That is totally up to her. Her choice, you can't control her. I would also go so far as to say you should not be working on your marriage either. You should be working on YOU.
By the sounds of it your son needs you desperately right now, if his mother is physically abusing him; protecting and supporting him should be your priority.
Forget your W for now, concentrate on your own mental health and the safely and security of you son.
Bits of paper with words on mean nothing.
Nutty
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
