Thanks for posting this again - I sent it to one or two people who were concerned about my h just post bomb, and it was a light bulb moment for them.
My h actually added a new line to the script too: accordig to him, apparently my father 'made' him marry me. Since my dad is dead he cannot defend himself, but the thought of my forward thinking feminist father arranging a marriage for his daughter, who he encouraged to have a career and independent life, is just ludicrous. Their 'truth' is a lie from beginning to end.
