Plus, I'm not sure what this says about me , but I was thinking that you have a pretty low tolerance for cussing - are you all usually pretty soft-spoken in your family?
LOL!!! If you only knew! No I am not a soft spoken person, and we all have pretty bad potty mouths. It wasn't so much what he said, but the way he said it. I know I reacted badly to it, but it was just too much with all that was going on yesterday. I felt terrible because I had been defending him all day, and the first thing he does is yell at me. That is what I was reacting to.
I guess you are right that I don't win any points for defending him. I am going back into the dark now, since this encounter wasn't so great. I haven't contacted him since the convo. I have plans this weekend too, so that will help to distract me while he has the kids.
, but I was thinking that you have a pretty low tolerance for cussing - are you all usually pretty soft-spoken in your family? 
