Many thanks. Do I assume from what you've read of my sitch that you think my W is in a MLC ? or are you just giving me the info to figure it out from what I've said ?
FWIW, I think she is going by the 6 stages of MLC, but I need to re read and figure out exactly what stage she is at. It maybe that she has been in it for longer than I realised as I don't think I could handle a lot of that stuff for 2 years !!! However, does DBing speed up the stages ?
Have scan read the MLC for dummies as at work, but intend to read bot posts fully this evening.
Thanks again, all responses greatly appreciated. It's a great place this and nice to know that people who don't know you can have empathy to your sitch
