Gosh RTL, its just more of the same from yuor W, shes so bitter and paranoid (whats this latest with the man with no shirts on stuff???). You know what I think is interesting? Shes the one thats being angry and controlling! Shes being really really controlling. She clearly quizzes your D when she gets home from the comments she makes about how you spend yuor time with her, but she cant "control" that, shes your D and if you want to buy her a spongebob video, so be it. She is being so heavy handed. Its a shame the situation keeps dragging on as I can see how painful it is. Well done for not reacting to her text messages, they are so out there!
I was going to ask you, can yuo stop texting her? Cant you try talking to her, or get her to agree to talk to you? I cant believe you are having to have important conversations about your D welfare by text message! This is another example of her being controlling as I am sure she is insisting on this, so as to get the "evidence" she needs.
You are coping marvellously well, I admire yuor strength.
Ali ______________ Me: 37 BF: 34 T: 9 years IDLYA: 2 Nov 07 Own flat: 26 Jan 08 Depression confirmed: 4 Mar backing off?
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
