should I dip my toe?

[buenosuerte]

I can see what you are saying and i know that my impatience are playing a huge factor in all of this. then i get on myself about my d not having a father that is in her life.

i feel like i should give it a time limit, for example if he doesn't make "real" contact by such and such date, file for custody of our d and child support and let that be it...