You're both out of touch with Frank's sitch to be responding the way you are.
Yes, he has struggled. But it's the typical struggle that anyone who has a spouse still at home chomping at the bits to leave has faced. It's no simple task to figure out the dynamic that keeps the peace, leaves the door open to future positive moves, and yet doesn't make you feel like you are implicitly giving your approval for their actions.
Plus, you're talking about things from two weeks ago. Frank has clearly made progress getting a handle on things since then.
From the bigger perspective, neither of you seem to understand that Frank is not currently in the business of fixing his marriage. He's done that once. What it got him was a repeat performance from a woman who feels like she should have left all along.
Offer some positive suggestions to go along with your 2x4's, otherwise you're just out to kick a guy who was pretty down at one point.
Frank, you're doing fine.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
