Newbie here needing some advice part 2

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Good job! Nice way to co-parent and support your wife. Keep up the excellent work! I am really keeping you in my thoughts and prayers! You seem like a really nice guy and you want your family. Something to be admired.

With no talks on the R, how is she doing on the visitation issue with the boys? While I realize you are working to repair, please do me one favor. Document every min. you spend with your boys. You may or may not need it, but please do me that one favor. Document and go to all Dr' appointments, request that she lets you know about them. Document and go to all school functions. If you can slip out at lunch, go have lunch with your children at school- document that. This is the Guardian Ad Litem in me that's been through 5 custody battles with an ex. I always wanted joint- he continued to fight for sole- winning it at one point. When a child has two loving, capable parents there is NO reason why joint custody should not be the norm.... but most of the time it's not. If it comes down to you needing more advice, let me know. I have a list of strong father's rights attorney that I can send you in your area. Not to get off the subject of Dbing, because that's the main goal- but I always warn good fathers to please document everything. Hopefully you will be able to toss it down the road!